Be Involved

I thought I gave Hubby some very good advice yesterday. I told him, "If you do not intend to get involved with DD's life now, don't expect to get involved with her life when she grows older." 

One cousin told me to enjoy the time spent with DD now because babies grow up very fast. Before you even notice, she will be 1 year old, 5 years old, 10 years old, and soon she will become a teenager. Now try bonding with a teenager if your foundation is not good to begin with. 

I take her word to my heart, for I know this is the truth. That is why I am telling Hubby this. Do the right thing, or regret later. You cannot reverse the growth stages of your child. Once past, it is past. I am beginning to think that being a stay-at-home-mum has its perks now. At least you get to watch your kid grow.

"The bond grows too."